When you are a gay man in your twenties, dating can be an all-around horrible experience.Buzz Feed reached out to some of those gay twentysomethings to tell us some of their difficulties when trying to date.But I've learned that those romantic conventions don't work when you are trying to date a queer person.The dynamic of two men being together IS DIFFERENT.
Can't you just date me for me and not be turned on/off by my tan skin?
Even though they're absolutely correct, maybe my idea of fun is not being single.
I know what 'wild and crazy fun' is out there, but I already got it out of my system. So yeah, I have every right to want to be with someone." —Tom, 22 "Every guy I've ever met that's my age just doesn't have their shit together.
At least when I was a big guy, men were more interested in other aspects of me." —Erich, 24 "Gay apps usually come with some sort of sorting hat for your 'gay tribe.' It sucks that there is so much division within the gay community in that respect.
It seems each tribe comes with its own set of rules for dating.